What do I think about Spirituality?

If you get hit by a car, not your spirituality or GOD but PEOPLE will help you whether they share your beliefs or not.

Spirituality is a topic often discussed very passionately. If one goes to a place like Dharamshala in India, this is the topic that is discussed the most. The person who suggested me to travel there is also a very spiritual person and someone who spends a great deal of her time protecting and taking care of animals.

Hundreds of Indians and non-Indians come to Dharamshala to experience or find something. However, my reason to travel there was not a spiritual one. It was not to find “the true me” or find peace. It was to get a break from my routine and get back in the world. In all honesty, after years of struggling, I finally have the means to take care of the people I care about as well as spend on myself.

As someone born in a lower middle-class family, spirituality has always been a luxury for me. I still think of it as a hobby for someone who has had & still has the luxury of spending time & money on themselves before anyone else. Random things keep happening in life, loved ones die. Some people then try to process what’s happening around them in creative ways and form opinions or belief systems. They then start to feel they know the meaning of life better than others. This feels very similar to the thought process of religious people. They too think they know the right or better way to live.

I’m just a web designer and not very great at it either. I have not travelled much, so what do I know about life? Not Much. But it’s not difficult for one to see that the kind of spiritual or religious beliefs & practices people follow are mostly those that allow them to live comfortably, hell even luxuriously. Siddhartha left his kingdom to be enlightened or something like that. The last hundreds of years people practicing Buddhism have built grand temples & monasteries all over the world. Most people just practise or follow those things which do not take them out of their comfort level.

So many people travel to India to find spirituality. Do they truly discover the meaning of life or set them on the right path? Maybe or maybe not. Maybe just understanding a different culture is enough for them to realize their problems are not as huge as they think, which eventually allows them to worry less.

We don’t have much control over most of the things in our life and no one knows anything for certain except that we are going to die. Even our own death is something we can’t control unless one decides to commit suicide and then has the balls to go through with it. If having a belief system whether it’s spiritual or religious helps you get through the day, then it’s great. But feeling spiritually superior over others is not very different from the ISIS guys thinking their way is the only way to life and rest are infidels.

At the end, after attending to the needs of people I love & care about and myself, if I have extra time, I’d prefer to spend it to help those around me in whatever capacity I can and not spend that time on being spiritual or religious. I may not know a lot of things, but I do know that spirituality or a religion won’t help cure cancer but humans can. If you get hit by a car, not your spirituality or GOD but PEOPLE will help you whether they share your beliefs or not.

So I’ll end this by saying that for me spirituality or religion is similar to a language. There are too many ways to live a life. As long as your belief system does not make you feel superior or motivate you to hurt others, then you are doing a great job.

Visit AhimsaMumbai.org if you wish to help street animals in any way you can. This is an organization managed by my friend who had suggested me to take a trip to Dharamshala.

What’s wrong with this advertisement?

Advertisement like these come and go without ever getting etched into our memory. There are very few advertisements remembered for their uniqueness and some just for the controversy they generate.

What is this advertisement about?

A kid remembers t0o late about his next day’s school project and so his parent’s work on his project which results in him getting an “A” grade.

Why I feel so strongly about this advertisement to write about it?

State of India

In a country like India with many religions and caste system, the backward classes never had any chance until India achieved independence in 1947. To tackle these issues, quota (reservations) were set up wherein seats were reserved for backward castes in colleges and government jobs. But like everything else, this too is often misused and holds no sense in today’s India.

Everything should be based purely on merit. I don’t believe in setting up any reservation but I do believe that even today these reservations do help some deserving students. And this oftens gets me into arguments with my friends and colleagues who hate reservations and feel it’s not fair.

A perfect system would be a system where reservation is based on a person’s merit and exceptions should be made only after considering a person’s talent and their financial situation. But there is no perfect system. And when I see people complaining about the reservations in colleges, this particular advertisement comes to my mind.

Is there actually a level playing field?

We don’t live in a fair world. While growing up, I have seen educated parents helping their kids with their school projects. Most parents now a days send their kids for coaching classes for every single school subject from as early as they are 4 years old. And I find it really irritating when a person who had the most resources complains about reservation system and merit.

I like learning new things but I have never been someone who worked hard to get good grades. I just learned enough to get a passing grade. I am writing this because even though I did not struggle, I have seen the struggle of people like my brother and few friends who worked hard and succeeded on their own despite facing so many challenges.

So when I find someone complaining about reservation system in India and about level playing field, my question to them would be?—?“who deserves an “A” grade? the student who worked hard and managed to make something on their own or the one whose parents did it for him?

Flat Colors in UI & Web Design

As more and more designers tend to use flat ui colors in their web design projects and mobile apps, there seem to be far less resource on this topic. There are few good articles such as  http://designmodo.com/flat-design-colors/ & a great site with a list of the colors mostly used in flat ui.

I am currently trying to put a collection of websites using flat ui colors as a source for inspiration. Anyone interested in this project and want to help do let me know by sending me a tweet at @harishchouhan

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Dot Social is a simple Icon based font consisting of Social Media Icons. This set contains 15 of the most popular social network site icons.

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Introduction to Adobe Fireworks

Photoshop has become the de-facto for graphic design. It has always been that way and it continues to be so. Fireworks though now a product of Adobe was originally created by Macromedia and launched in 1998. Fireworks was created with functionalities similar to Illustrator and Photoshop and was no doubt created for screen design. Fireworks strength has always been its simplicity and its ability to allow us to do rapid prototyping.

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WordCamp Mumbai!

The last 2 days were a good break in my hectic & download spirally life. There were setbacks and the Event wasn’t perfect but still it was enjoyable and it was also great to meet like minded people.

Kudos to the organizers & Volunteers Piyushkumar Jain & Simoni Gupta of Home for Geeks and to IndiBlogger for organizing this event and bring people with passion for WordPress closer.